Perfect!

Come to think of it, life doesn’t always goes our way. Right, we may have everything planned ahead of us, a day earlier, a week earlier, a month earlier, or even a year earlier, but things just don’t seem to be going the right way. Accident happens, and unwanted results occur around us all the time. There is no such thing as PERFECT in this world( correct me if I’m wrong ). I just don’t see how some people can be such a perfectionist. They seem to want everything goes their way and if it doesn’t, God knows what crap they will be thinking or doing or saying or complaining. Whining around about the different turnout from what they had previously planned and blaming themselves for whatever reason there is for it to not be following the original plan and what’s worse, flaming others( Erm maybe the word flaming is a bit too harsh but =P ). What’s the point for all these? Why making things so tensed up? Can’t things just be done cooly even there were to be some problems turned out? Things might seem hard for them but trust me, things weren’t that good either for those working together with them. It might be other people’s error that leads to different turnout, don’t jump to conclusion saying that particular person is incompetent. That person might had tried his/her best already. When something goes wrong, don’t start pointing fingers over who’s that to be blamed and held responsible but take that time to find a way to cover them. This is teamwork. If your teammate having trouble and makes mistake, try to make it up for them with your brilliant mind. Backing each other up is how a team works. Ah, yes, unless all are having the same problem, then that’s another situation.

Life is not like a written script in a movie. There is nothing to hold onto and follow exactly. Whatever we’re doing is just mere slight guideline telling us briefly our path. We cannot follow blindly. We need to change with the environment and condition and whatever crap of relative measures there is. Don’t hold onto something too tight, you’ll break your fingers or even your arm. Things don’t go your way? Figure out what’s wrong and work another way out. Do not push on the same way to reach a target. There are always alternate routes in this world full of choices.

*January 31st 2006