Friend?

Floating in the air. Afloat in the air. WHich sounds better? Doesn’t really matter anyway, it has nothing to do with my blogs. Is it true that a person has 2 faces? As in, does everyone wears a mask of their own in life? Or I should ask, is it a mask, or it’s a sub-councious self in a person? I learn that people keep their real self when interacting with others. True self only appears when one is alone. Usually this applies to those who looks happy and joyful all the time. When interacting with others, it seems as though that person is problem free, but deep within, there are some things which bother them much. Appearance can be deceiving. But do not get things wrong. Deceiving doesn’t always means harm or negative. Sometimes, one deceives for the sake of others. Isn’t it funny when one is unhappy, stressed, in blue, down or facing problems going around letting all know about their situation? Feeling down alone is always better than making everyone around feeling down together. Why not make all those around us happy? Sometimes others’ happiness and smile can lighten up oneself. Laughter is contagious, so does stress. Consider this carefully.

That is about making others happy while you’re not But everything in this life has exceptions. If you feel that you can’t handle it anymore, find someone to talk to- close friend, or those that you trust. One will feel better sharing a burden with someone trusted compare to keeping it to oneself. When you’re down, talk to someone, it can keep you from further thinking about negative things.

Do not tend to hold onto something too tight, you will hurt yourself more. When you can’t get what you hold onto, it’s time to loosen your grip and learn how to let go, life will be easier. Why want to hold onto something that will hurt you?

There are always 2 ways to see things. Ponder upon this statement. Life goes on, history repeats itself. Change…Change…

*October 20th 2005